Last night I had the pleasure of enjoying a night of fun, food, drinks, and magic with Yelp St. Louis at the Yelp Winter Wonderland Party! The event took place at the Grand Hall at Union Station. Restaurants were serving amazing food including Evangeline's Bistro and Music House, Bootleggin' BBQ, Lona's Lil Eats, Clementine's Naughty and Nice Creamery, 360, and Hot Box Cookies, and others. The food was great! My friend Chassica and I enjoyed everything and Evangeline's Bistro Made-to-order Bananas Foster was amazing!
The venue was amazing and featured a visual display coordinated with sound, narration, and music every 30 minutes. It was great! I loved it!
For entertainment, among noshing, sipping, and mingling, we also got to enjoy a photo booth and even, a beautiful snow queen!
As usual, another great Yelp event in the books! I love Yelp!
Friday, December 11, 2015
Wednesday, December 2, 2015
Late Post: Delux Magazine Power 100 Event
I was blessed on the evening of November 8, 2015 when I attended Delux Magazine's Power 100 event, which was held at Lumiere Live in downtown St. Louis. The event was held to honor 100 local African American movers, shakers, makers, politicians, owners, and every thing in between who have been recognized for their service and commitment to St. Louis.
Some of the recipients included Channel 4 News Anchor Andre Hepkins, artist C'babi Bayoc, radio personalities Tammi Holland and Staci Static, and St. Louis City Treasurer Tishaura O. Jones, among many, many others!
It was beautiful, inspiring, and encouraging to be surrounded by so many brilliant and talented people all in one room. I also had the priveledge to interview one of the "Distinguished Leaders", Vanessa Foster-Cooksey for the cover story of the current issue of Delux Magazine.
In that this was the first -time that the event was held, I'm sure that future Power 100 events will be known as one of the most prestigious and highly-anticipated annual events of the year in St. Louis.
Delux Magazine is currently taking nominations for 30 individuals under the age of 30, who will be recognized and known as the "Emerging 30." Keep up the great work Delux Magazine and its fearless and passionate leader, Keith Griffin III! Congratulations to all the recipients!
My look for the evening
Some of the recipients included Channel 4 News Anchor Andre Hepkins, artist C'babi Bayoc, radio personalities Tammi Holland and Staci Static, and St. Louis City Treasurer Tishaura O. Jones, among many, many others!
It was beautiful, inspiring, and encouraging to be surrounded by so many brilliant and talented people all in one room. I also had the priveledge to interview one of the "Distinguished Leaders", Vanessa Foster-Cooksey for the cover story of the current issue of Delux Magazine.
In that this was the first -time that the event was held, I'm sure that future Power 100 events will be known as one of the most prestigious and highly-anticipated annual events of the year in St. Louis.
Delux Magazine is currently taking nominations for 30 individuals under the age of 30, who will be recognized and known as the "Emerging 30." Keep up the great work Delux Magazine and its fearless and passionate leader, Keith Griffin III! Congratulations to all the recipients!
Thursday, October 29, 2015
Midwest Influencer Network Blogger Event at Ball Park Village 10/22/2015
On Thursday, October 22, 2015, I and many fellow bloggers in the St. Louis area came together for a stellar event hosted by Alive Magazine, Missouri Eating Disorders Council, and Ballpark Village. The event titled Midwest Influencer Network Style Lounge featured numerous local vendors from Fauxgerty, The Normal Brand, Collections by Joya, STL Style, Create Space, and more.
There were tasty appetizers passed around all night, an open bar to keep our thirst quenched, and an awesome gift bag! The gift bag included fudge from the Fudgery, a cute t-shirt from PBR at Ballpark Village, an art print from Oh So Poppy, and even balsamic vinegar from Date Lady. It was very nice to say the least!
Events like this from the Midwest Influencer Network are a great way for bloggers to connect and socialize and network, but also a great way to connect bloggers with businesses to create new business partnerships. I look forward to the next event!
Blessings of the Fall: Where I Have Been/Shingles?! Who gets Shingles?
Well my lovelies, here we are at the end of October in the year of our Lord 2015, and I have been absent from my blog since last month. There have been many reasons for this delay, from the bizarre to the awesome! I count it all joy! One major reason for my absence has been a rush of new opportunities that I have received for my writing.
I am a Staff Writer for Spoken Moments LLC , which is a non-profit organization based in St. Louis that supports and hosts local arts and events for the community's poetry and spoken word movement. As their Staff Writer, I am responsible for writing content for the organization's blog on its website www.spokenmoments.com. It has been an amazing opportunity and I am delighted to be a part of this movement!
Another great series of opportunities that I have been blessed with is through the local upscale, urban magazine Delux Magazine. Delux releases print publications of its magazine every two months. I have just wrapped up my second issue writing for them which is exciting! This most recent issue, which is due to come out in early November 2015, will feature three of my articles, including the cover story! I'm so excited to see my name in print. It's truly an incredible feeling as a writer. I'm excited to continue my journey into journalism with Delux.
Now, as great as those happenings have been, there has been one road bump, which I'm afraid to say was probably a bi-product of my experiences with my writing ramping up. On the last Tuesday of September, I noticed my lymph node was swollen behind my left ear. This was odd and of course I was worried, but I kept on moving. Later the same night, I found that I had 3 small bumps on my scalp, near my forehead, also on the left side of my head. They began to itch and hurt. This was all very odd but I thought it was maybe due to a bug bite. For the next few days, I experienced severe, mind-blowing pain and migraines. I never get migraines, or any headaches for that matter so I knew something was wrong.
I called my doctor's office that Friday. I was trying to wait a week before calling for fear of being blown off by the office and being told to wait, but I knew something was wrong. Of course, they were booked that day and told me to call back the next day to see if I could get squeezed in by another doctor in the office or wait til Monday to call. I was bothered, but said ok. That day continued to get worse and worse, not to mention that I had a wedding to attend that evening. I decided to go to the Take Care Clinic at Walgreens. I went and unfortunately was misdiagnosed as having a skin infection. This upset me because I had told the nurse practitioner there all of my symptoms but she only was stuck on "skin irritation". So she prescribed me some antibiotics. The next day I started taking the medicine, and the rash spread to my left eye. I waited to see if the medicine would kick in further into the 10-day dosage, but it did not.
Now keep in mind, I'm a borderline hypochondriac and had been reading WebMD and Google about my symptoms for almost a week, trying to figure out what I had and why the pain would not go away even while taking antibiotics. On Monday night, I decided to look up Shingles. It looked like what I had but I still wasn't sure about it. I mean, let's face it. Only old people get shingles right?
After suffering and working at home during the week, on Wednesday morning I finally decided that the meds weren't working and called my doctor. Again, the receptionist told me that they were booked and suggested making an appointment for the following week. I gave push back and she asked me what is the problem. I stated with a serious vocal tone, "I think that I have shingles." She put me on hold and came back in a minute and told me that the doctor could see me in two hours. I was there!
As soon as my doctor walked into the examination room that I was in and saw me, he shook his head and said "oh no". My doctor and I have a running joke because I always self-diagnose when I arrive at his office with an issue. So he asked me "are you thinking what I'm thinking?" I said "I have two possibilities, what are you thinking?" He said "I have only one. What do you think it is?" I asked, "do you think it's shingles?" And he replied "I know it's shingles."
Of course I was shocked and upset at the diagnosis. How do I have shingles??? I'm 32! This is something that old people get! He assured me that he himself had had it and went into all of the symptoms that he had with it, which were identical to mine. I asked how I could have gotten this and he told me flatly, "stress, stress is the only way someone your age gets shingles." This was even more shocking because although I have been stressed, I've been dealing with it. I haven't cried myself to sleep or rocked in the fetal position in a corner! But my body clearly wasn't handling the stress as well as I thought it had.
The scary thing about shingles is that there is no cure and there's no exact timeframe for it leaving your body. Some people have it for a couple weeks, others have it for a lifetime. Everyone is different. It can also cause permanent nerve damage and blindness in the eye that it surrounds.
That afternoon after getting the medicine that my doctor prescribed, I went to the opthamologist to make sure that my cornea wasn't damaged. That's how the blindness happens. He told me (in 2 minutes after about a 40 minute wait smh), that my cornea looked fine. Thank God!
As I continued taking the 7-day dosage of these big blue pills for shingles (not to be confused with the little blue pill for Viagara, I'm just saying), my symptoms began to diminish. It turns out my case of shingles was pretty mild in that it only affected my scalp, forehead, and eyelid. I was blessed. I am blessed.
Now, I was nervous because my doctor, WebMD, and the CDC's website all say that it can cause lifelong nerve damage. My doctor said that when he touches his face, the side that had shingles still tingles unlike the other side. I understood what he was saying because I too felt the difference in my face and scalp while the rash was clearing up.
I was quarantined for a good week which was unbearable! And the recent opening of the new Ikea store didn't help my agony. I was so bummed that I couldn't go but I didn't want to get anyone else sick. Shingles is only contagious for a little while and only to certain groups of people: Chemo patients, Pregnant women, babies under 18 months, people who have never gotten chicken pox, and HIV and transplant patients.
I had my sad moments when I'd cry and question "why me?" But then one day during it all, I changed my attitude. I sometimes look at things that happen in my life as part of my memoir and determine how much of my "book" will be devoted to the situation. I decided that shingles will not define me and will get no more than a paragraph of "my book" no matter how long it lasts.
I prayed to God every day for the 2 straight weeks I had this that this would not leave me with long-term effects and to take this away from me! God answers prayers.
Fortunately, every day the tingling would diminish until finally, I'm happy to say, it was gone completely! No more rash, no more burning, no more migraines. Now when I touch the infected areas, I feel nothing. It feels normal just like the right side of my eyelid, forehead, and scalp. Praise be to God in the highest!!!!!
I have to use this experience of course to show how good God is but also to tell people to take care of themselves and don't push yourself too hard. I didn't think I was, but my body thought differently. Take it easy. Take time out for yourself and spend your free time doing something you love to do. And relax yourself. Be still some times. That's the lesson I'm using for this. I'm not a homebody and I constantly want to be out doing something fun. But all of that running around and taking on new projects came at the expense of my health, which is not good. Shingles forced me to be still.
We only have one body and one life. Take care of it and take care of yourself. I'm thankful that my bout of shingles only lasted about 4 weeks in its entirety. It could have been much worse but God blessed me and I am absolutely grateful!
I am a Staff Writer for Spoken Moments LLC , which is a non-profit organization based in St. Louis that supports and hosts local arts and events for the community's poetry and spoken word movement. As their Staff Writer, I am responsible for writing content for the organization's blog on its website www.spokenmoments.com. It has been an amazing opportunity and I am delighted to be a part of this movement!
Another great series of opportunities that I have been blessed with is through the local upscale, urban magazine Delux Magazine. Delux releases print publications of its magazine every two months. I have just wrapped up my second issue writing for them which is exciting! This most recent issue, which is due to come out in early November 2015, will feature three of my articles, including the cover story! I'm so excited to see my name in print. It's truly an incredible feeling as a writer. I'm excited to continue my journey into journalism with Delux.
Now, as great as those happenings have been, there has been one road bump, which I'm afraid to say was probably a bi-product of my experiences with my writing ramping up. On the last Tuesday of September, I noticed my lymph node was swollen behind my left ear. This was odd and of course I was worried, but I kept on moving. Later the same night, I found that I had 3 small bumps on my scalp, near my forehead, also on the left side of my head. They began to itch and hurt. This was all very odd but I thought it was maybe due to a bug bite. For the next few days, I experienced severe, mind-blowing pain and migraines. I never get migraines, or any headaches for that matter so I knew something was wrong.
I called my doctor's office that Friday. I was trying to wait a week before calling for fear of being blown off by the office and being told to wait, but I knew something was wrong. Of course, they were booked that day and told me to call back the next day to see if I could get squeezed in by another doctor in the office or wait til Monday to call. I was bothered, but said ok. That day continued to get worse and worse, not to mention that I had a wedding to attend that evening. I decided to go to the Take Care Clinic at Walgreens. I went and unfortunately was misdiagnosed as having a skin infection. This upset me because I had told the nurse practitioner there all of my symptoms but she only was stuck on "skin irritation". So she prescribed me some antibiotics. The next day I started taking the medicine, and the rash spread to my left eye. I waited to see if the medicine would kick in further into the 10-day dosage, but it did not.
Now keep in mind, I'm a borderline hypochondriac and had been reading WebMD and Google about my symptoms for almost a week, trying to figure out what I had and why the pain would not go away even while taking antibiotics. On Monday night, I decided to look up Shingles. It looked like what I had but I still wasn't sure about it. I mean, let's face it. Only old people get shingles right?
After suffering and working at home during the week, on Wednesday morning I finally decided that the meds weren't working and called my doctor. Again, the receptionist told me that they were booked and suggested making an appointment for the following week. I gave push back and she asked me what is the problem. I stated with a serious vocal tone, "I think that I have shingles." She put me on hold and came back in a minute and told me that the doctor could see me in two hours. I was there!
As soon as my doctor walked into the examination room that I was in and saw me, he shook his head and said "oh no". My doctor and I have a running joke because I always self-diagnose when I arrive at his office with an issue. So he asked me "are you thinking what I'm thinking?" I said "I have two possibilities, what are you thinking?" He said "I have only one. What do you think it is?" I asked, "do you think it's shingles?" And he replied "I know it's shingles."
Of course I was shocked and upset at the diagnosis. How do I have shingles??? I'm 32! This is something that old people get! He assured me that he himself had had it and went into all of the symptoms that he had with it, which were identical to mine. I asked how I could have gotten this and he told me flatly, "stress, stress is the only way someone your age gets shingles." This was even more shocking because although I have been stressed, I've been dealing with it. I haven't cried myself to sleep or rocked in the fetal position in a corner! But my body clearly wasn't handling the stress as well as I thought it had.
The scary thing about shingles is that there is no cure and there's no exact timeframe for it leaving your body. Some people have it for a couple weeks, others have it for a lifetime. Everyone is different. It can also cause permanent nerve damage and blindness in the eye that it surrounds.
That afternoon after getting the medicine that my doctor prescribed, I went to the opthamologist to make sure that my cornea wasn't damaged. That's how the blindness happens. He told me (in 2 minutes after about a 40 minute wait smh), that my cornea looked fine. Thank God!
As I continued taking the 7-day dosage of these big blue pills for shingles (not to be confused with the little blue pill for Viagara, I'm just saying), my symptoms began to diminish. It turns out my case of shingles was pretty mild in that it only affected my scalp, forehead, and eyelid. I was blessed. I am blessed.
Now, I was nervous because my doctor, WebMD, and the CDC's website all say that it can cause lifelong nerve damage. My doctor said that when he touches his face, the side that had shingles still tingles unlike the other side. I understood what he was saying because I too felt the difference in my face and scalp while the rash was clearing up.
I was quarantined for a good week which was unbearable! And the recent opening of the new Ikea store didn't help my agony. I was so bummed that I couldn't go but I didn't want to get anyone else sick. Shingles is only contagious for a little while and only to certain groups of people: Chemo patients, Pregnant women, babies under 18 months, people who have never gotten chicken pox, and HIV and transplant patients.
I had my sad moments when I'd cry and question "why me?" But then one day during it all, I changed my attitude. I sometimes look at things that happen in my life as part of my memoir and determine how much of my "book" will be devoted to the situation. I decided that shingles will not define me and will get no more than a paragraph of "my book" no matter how long it lasts.
I prayed to God every day for the 2 straight weeks I had this that this would not leave me with long-term effects and to take this away from me! God answers prayers.
Fortunately, every day the tingling would diminish until finally, I'm happy to say, it was gone completely! No more rash, no more burning, no more migraines. Now when I touch the infected areas, I feel nothing. It feels normal just like the right side of my eyelid, forehead, and scalp. Praise be to God in the highest!!!!!
I have to use this experience of course to show how good God is but also to tell people to take care of themselves and don't push yourself too hard. I didn't think I was, but my body thought differently. Take it easy. Take time out for yourself and spend your free time doing something you love to do. And relax yourself. Be still some times. That's the lesson I'm using for this. I'm not a homebody and I constantly want to be out doing something fun. But all of that running around and taking on new projects came at the expense of my health, which is not good. Shingles forced me to be still.
We only have one body and one life. Take care of it and take care of yourself. I'm thankful that my bout of shingles only lasted about 4 weeks in its entirety. It could have been much worse but God blessed me and I am absolutely grateful!
Monday, September 14, 2015
Five Years after the Psychic: The Results
On September 6, 2010, I had my first
ever reading with a psychic. I had always been curious about what a psychic
would tell me about my future, but had never done the research to find one. My
coworker Kim at the time had a long-term “family psychic” who she had been
seeing for years. She had high praise of the woman so I thought why not?
The psychic surprised me in that she was
an older, eccentric, high-class white woman who was well kept, polished, and
stylish. She didn’t seem like a scary, crazy, witch-like old woman like I had
imagined. She had several huge diamond rings on her fingers and her nails were
well-manicured. She performed her services in the basement of her South County
home. We pulled up from the back of her house, which had an elaborate garden in
her back yard.
When Kim and I arrived at her place, the
psychic greeted us in the garden and of course, she talked with Kim about her
family. While they were speaking, I stood by nervous and anxious about what was
about to happen. I will never forget I felt a slight itch on my left temple
close to my hair line. I gently moved my finger over the place with the itch. There was no scratch, bump, or blemish in the place from where the itch came. When I took my finger down from my face, I found blood on my fingertip. I was
startled and alarmed because it was a good amount of blood and the place only
had a slight itch and it didn’t hurt. I frantically, yet discreetly, wiped
the place again with my fingertip until I stopped seeing blood. This happened
all while Kim and the psychic were briefly catching up before my reading. I
totally felt a sense of dread as if God was displeased with my decision to see
the psychic and used the blood as a warning not to do it. Sadly and nervously,
I still went through with the reading.
The
Reading
For $50, you can buy or do a lot of
things. On this particular day in 2010, I chose to spend 50 of my hard-earned
dollars on a psychic reading. The psychic is so slick with her business that she
only gives clients a 5-year outlook for a charge of $50. I’m sure that this is
to ensure that people will come back. She used tarot cards and numerology to
conduct the reading. She also gives clients
a cassette tape (yes, old school) of the recording from your reading. I can
tell you the exact place in my home where my tape is, and still to this day, I have
NEVER listened to it.
Here is a listing of the things that she
told me that day, whether she was correct or not, and a synopsis of what has
happened. You’ll notice that some of the things she told me were somewhat
minute. This surprised me in that I expected nothing but life-changing events
to be discussed. Keep in mind, Kim and the psychic gave me a disclaimer that
things may be close to what she told me if not exact. This means that certain
small details may not be exactly as she stated in the reading.
You
will take two trips, including one for pleasure and one with your family. True.
I actually have taken no less than seven
trips in the last five years. This includes two cruises, two family reunions
(one to Mississippi and one to Chicago), a brief visit to Kansas City, an
overnight trip to Chicago with my mom and sister, and an overnight trip to
Memphis with two friends. So technically, she was correct. I did take two trips, including one with my family and one for pleasure.
You will pick up a woman who is close to you from the hospital. True-ish.
In late January 2014, I visited my
mother while she was inpatient at the hospital for congestive heart failure.
Although I did not “pick her up” from the hospital, I do believe that this is
the incident that the psychic was referring to.
You
will get a new job and you will take a class for the new job. True.
In July 2011, I started a new job with a health insurance company. The job included a 16-week training
which was held in a classroom setting.
You
will attend two weddings, one you will have to travel to and one you will be in
the wedding. True.
It’s funny. This prediction just came to fruition within the last 6
months. In March of this year, I was honored to serve as a bridesmaid in my
cousin Olivia’s wedding in Las Vegas. Then on September 6th of this year, the very last day of the
5-year outlook, I attended the wedding of my childhood friend Camille. This just made the deadline! Those are the
only two weddings that I have gone to in the 5-year period.
You
will have a minor medical concern similar to UTI. True-ish.
For the record, NO, I did NOT have UTI.
However, I did have an abnormal pap smear a few years ago and needed a
colposcopy (a scopic procedure and subsequent biopsy to determine if cervical cancer
exists). I believe that this is the small concern that she was referring to,
and fortunately the procedure resulted in no issue, disease, or cancer, as the
psychic predicted. Thank God.
You
will buy a house. False.
This has not happened, nor have I had
any plans or efforts made toward doing this. Sorry girl, this didn’t happen.
You
will be introduced by a relative or coworker to an older man with facial hair
who is divorced. You will not be married to this man, or married to anyone by
the end of the 5-year period, but you will be discussing marriage with this man.
This one is complicated.
As you can see, this prediction consisted
of a few different aspects. First of
all, no, I am not married. So she got that part right. She said that I would be introduced to this man. I have NOT been
introduced to this man. However, there is a man, who is older than me and
divorced with facial hair, who up until recently I was discussing marriage
with. I met this particular man online. Currently, through some (very) recent
developments, we are not in a relationship at this time. But to her credit, by
the end of the 5-year period, yes, there was a man with such features, who I
was discussing marriage with.
You
will move to Texas in order to be with the aforementioned man. False.
As much as I want to leave St. Louis, I
still live here. There is no definite plan in place to relocate to Texas, and
definitely no plans of any kind to move there with the aforementioned man (who
lives in St. Louis also).
The
Aftermath
So, all in all, out of the 8 things in
particular that this psychic projected would happen in my life, she got all but
2 things correct. Yes, I gave her the benefit of the doubt on three of the
predictions, which she had more accurate than not. So she did alright.
On the morning after I had my reading, I
found myself completely engulfed in thoughts, anxiety, doubt, stress, and sadness
over the things that the psychic had told me. Every second after I had the
reading was spent dwelling on what she told me. I was completely consumed, and
I felt horrible about it. I felt like I had disappointed God by seeking a
shortcut to my future rather than having faith and praying about my future, as
a “good” Christian should. I got on my hands and knees the day after the reading,
and with tears streaming down my face, I prayed to God for forgiveness for
seeing the psychic. I felt ashamed for going to see her.
I would soon realize that in the days,
weeks, months, and years after the reading, that through all major and minor
experiences of my life, I would compare EVERYTHING to what that psychic told
me. Any time I would be introduced to a man, I would automatically think, “I
wonder if this is the guy that the psychic was telling me about.” Conversely,
whenever I would meet a man who I was not
introduced to, or who was not divorced,
I would think in the back of my head, “this
isn’t the guy because he doesn’t match what the psychic told me.” Can you
imagine living for FIVE YEARS questioning everyone you met or every experience
you had based on what someone told you years earlier? For lack of a better
word, I have to refer to it as a form of torture.
How can you be optimistic, hopeful, and
faithful about your life when you are basing everything on a list that someone
told you years earlier? I wanted to be married. I wanted to be married badly on
September 6, 2010, and I was heartbroken when I was told by the psychic that I
would not be married within the next five years. Would things have been
different had I not gone to her? That we will never know. The outcome possibly
would have been the same. But the difference is that I would not have known it. I would have looked at every
man I met as potentially being my future husband, rather than questioning them
because they didn’t fit the prediction. I would have applied for every job outside
of St. Louis with the hope and faith that I would get that job, not just the jobs
in Texas because that’s where the psychic told me I would end up.
Even though over time I stopped dwelling
and stopped constantly thinking about what I was told, these thoughts were
permanently ingrained in the back of my head for the last five years. I always
told myself that God is bigger than that psychic and her predictions, and that
whatever He has for me, I’m going to
get, regardless of what she said. However, the things that that woman told me
were always a constant thought in my mind that I would never be able to erase.
Although I don’t have any regrets in life, it is for these reasons, that I can’t
help but think that I would have been better off had I never gone to see that
psychic.
A few years ago, my former coworker Kim,
who introduced me to the psychic, invited me to a “psychic party” that she was
throwing for her friends and family, with the same psychic, in which we would
all pay our $50 and get our readings. I immediately told her “no” and told her
that I still had remorse over getting my first (and only) psychic reading. She
has not asked me again.
Now, here I am a week after the 5-year
deadline feeling completely free and
completely lost at the same time. Because as bad as it is to say, I feel like I
have no basis for what to expect of my future at this point, and I have not had
that feeling in five years. I have used those predictions as such a crutch for
living that now I don’t know what to think about my future. And before you say
it, no, I am absolutely not going back to that psychic, or any other psychics
for that matter. I want to experience life and its twists and turns without
bias, fear, pressure, or expectation, but instead with excitement, hope,
optimism, and faith.
If you are interested in seeing a
psychic, I say do what you’d like to do, but make sure you are ready for the
information that you will receive. Because once it is planted in your brain,
you may not be able to un-sow that seed. Trust God, pray, and be hopeful
always.
Monday, August 31, 2015
Natural Hair Chronicles: Flexi Rods
I've been "natural" for the last 6 years and I am most definitely, positively NEVER going back to relaxers! I'm trying to get my mom to get on board the natural hair bandwagon too, but as with most things, it is hard for some of these old heads to do something different than what they're used to.
My hair is naturally wavy and as much as I love wearing my hair in its natural state of curls and waves, I have struggled to find ways and products that will keep my hair from getting frizzy. The notoriously humid St. Louis summer weather also does nothing to help this pursuit. However, I've recently been trying new products and new tools that are giving me hope of a longer-lasting, more manageable way to wear my hair curly. My most recent adventure was yesterday when I tried flexi rods for the first time. I used the Goody Spiral It Out flexi rods. Here's a look at how that went:
Step 1: Wet or Wash your hair and pat it dry with a towel. I had recently washed my hair so I decided just to wet it.
Step 2: While still damp, detangle the hair by combing/brushing.
Step 3: Add product. I used the Shea Moisture Yucca & Plantain Anti-Breakage Strengthening Styling Milk. I put a quarter-sized amount into my palm, rubbed my hands together and smoothed it all over my damp hair from root to ends.
Step 4: I then took a smaller section of hair and rubbed Carol's Daughter Mimosa Hair Honey onto my finger tips and smoothed it on each tress as a sealant for added shine, moisture, and to further prevent frizz. I then took the flexi rod and starting at the end, coiled my hair around the rod going all the way the hair shaft to my root. The skinnier blue rod for tighter curls and thicker purple rods for bigger, looser wavier curls. I then "locked" the rod by bending each side so that the rod was in the shape of a "C".
I repeated this step with all of my hair. There were 20 rods in the pack and I used all but 2 rods.
Step 5: With my hair still in the rods, I blow-dried my hair on high heat for 30 minutes, shifting between hot, warm, and cool temperatures. Cool air at the end locks the style in place.
Because I did this before church yesterday, I was rushing to finish the blow-drying. Big Mistake.
Step 6: After a total of 40 minutes, I unraveled my hair from the rods. My hair was about 85% dry. Another 20 - 30 minutes, and I think my hair would have been completely dry. I decided to take my blow-dryer and add the diffuser attachment and diffused my hair for about 5 minutes more without the rods. That helped a lot, while still keeping the curls in place. DONE!
The end result: I'm pleased with how it turned out. I definitely like the curl definition and silkiness of my hair. I think next time I use the rods, though, I'll use more of the thicker rods. My curls were a little tighter than I planned, but I'm still pleased. I've also gotten a lot of compliments on how it looks.
Side Note: I have to show off the outfit that I wore to church yesterday! I got these pants on Saturday from Old Navy. Guess how much these pants were? $.97!!!!
Without using the rods, I've fallen in love with Miss Jesse's Originals Jelly Soft Curls gel. I was unsure if it was a good idea or not to apply that with the rods, but that gel is my absolute fave for soft, voluminous curls. Just apply a couple quarter-sized dabs into palms and work into damp hair. Then scrunch the hair with your hands, and then blow-dry with a diffuser and you're done! SO EASY! This is how my hair looked after doing that:
I also recommend Carol's Daughter Hair Milk Refresher Spray on day 3-4 to get the curls back, when you don't want to get your hair completely wet again.
I hope that these tips help you on your natural hair journey. It can definitely be a process finding the right products and techniques to getting the styles that you like while transitioning, but I promise you, it's absolutely worth it in the end! I'm never going back to the creamy crack again!
My hair is naturally wavy and as much as I love wearing my hair in its natural state of curls and waves, I have struggled to find ways and products that will keep my hair from getting frizzy. The notoriously humid St. Louis summer weather also does nothing to help this pursuit. However, I've recently been trying new products and new tools that are giving me hope of a longer-lasting, more manageable way to wear my hair curly. My most recent adventure was yesterday when I tried flexi rods for the first time. I used the Goody Spiral It Out flexi rods. Here's a look at how that went:
Step 1: Wet or Wash your hair and pat it dry with a towel. I had recently washed my hair so I decided just to wet it.
Step 2: While still damp, detangle the hair by combing/brushing.
Step 3: Add product. I used the Shea Moisture Yucca & Plantain Anti-Breakage Strengthening Styling Milk. I put a quarter-sized amount into my palm, rubbed my hands together and smoothed it all over my damp hair from root to ends.
Step 4: I then took a smaller section of hair and rubbed Carol's Daughter Mimosa Hair Honey onto my finger tips and smoothed it on each tress as a sealant for added shine, moisture, and to further prevent frizz. I then took the flexi rod and starting at the end, coiled my hair around the rod going all the way the hair shaft to my root. The skinnier blue rod for tighter curls and thicker purple rods for bigger, looser wavier curls. I then "locked" the rod by bending each side so that the rod was in the shape of a "C".
I repeated this step with all of my hair. There were 20 rods in the pack and I used all but 2 rods.
Step 5: With my hair still in the rods, I blow-dried my hair on high heat for 30 minutes, shifting between hot, warm, and cool temperatures. Cool air at the end locks the style in place.
Because I did this before church yesterday, I was rushing to finish the blow-drying. Big Mistake.
Step 6: After a total of 40 minutes, I unraveled my hair from the rods. My hair was about 85% dry. Another 20 - 30 minutes, and I think my hair would have been completely dry. I decided to take my blow-dryer and add the diffuser attachment and diffused my hair for about 5 minutes more without the rods. That helped a lot, while still keeping the curls in place. DONE!
Still wet in some places
The end result: I'm pleased with how it turned out. I definitely like the curl definition and silkiness of my hair. I think next time I use the rods, though, I'll use more of the thicker rods. My curls were a little tighter than I planned, but I'm still pleased. I've also gotten a lot of compliments on how it looks.
Finished Product after diffusing
Side Note: I have to show off the outfit that I wore to church yesterday! I got these pants on Saturday from Old Navy. Guess how much these pants were? $.97!!!!
Without using the rods, I've fallen in love with Miss Jesse's Originals Jelly Soft Curls gel. I was unsure if it was a good idea or not to apply that with the rods, but that gel is my absolute fave for soft, voluminous curls. Just apply a couple quarter-sized dabs into palms and work into damp hair. Then scrunch the hair with your hands, and then blow-dry with a diffuser and you're done! SO EASY! This is how my hair looked after doing that:
I also recommend Carol's Daughter Hair Milk Refresher Spray on day 3-4 to get the curls back, when you don't want to get your hair completely wet again.
I hope that these tips help you on your natural hair journey. It can definitely be a process finding the right products and techniques to getting the styles that you like while transitioning, but I promise you, it's absolutely worth it in the end! I'm never going back to the creamy crack again!
Sunday, August 2, 2015
Review: Wet Hot American Summer: First Day at Camp; Awesome Come-back for a Cult Classic
I have fond memories of seeing Wet Hot American Summer with my friend Elizabeth Toal during my freshman year at Stephens College in 2001. We saw the movie at the RagTag Theater, a small local theater in downtown Columbia, Missouri that showed off-beat, artsy, and indie movies. The movie had us crying and laughing out loud. Another gentleman who was sitting in front of us was also dying laughing. The rest of the audience did not find it as hilarious as we did but I'm truly happy that this film grew enough of a cult following that Netflix and the entire cast from the movie decided to create a TV series as a prequel.
Wet Hot American Summer: First Day at Camp takes place 8 weeks before the 2001 film takes place on the first day of camp (the film takes place on the last day of camp). The TV series is just as quirky, raunchy, and campy as the original movie, with a lot twists and turns and new characters introduced who were not in the movie (i.e. John Hamm, Michael Cera, Jordan Peele, and Jason Schwartzman). There are lots of allusions to the movie in the lines and sequences that are used by the cast (ie Victor constantly running away from someone), and even in the ultra-cheesy theme song from the movie "Higher and Higher". We see how Ron and Gail met, who Lindsay really is, how Katie and Andy started going out, and perhaps the most important thing, the story behind Gene's talking can of vegetables. I LOVED IT! I love how all of the original cast signed on, even with so many of them being huge stars presently (ie Amy Poehler, Bradley Cooper, Elizabeth Banks, Paul Rudd, etc).
I feel kind of sad for Michael Showalter who played Coop, who was notably the only actor who looks physically different (he's put on a few extra pounds, but what do you expect in that it's been 14 years since the movie came out). This is an excellent 8-episode season that hopefully won't be the last time we visit the summer of 1981 at Camp Firewood. And hopefully we won't have to wait 14 years for its return. I can't wait for the next season!
Wet Hot American Summer: First Day at Camp takes place 8 weeks before the 2001 film takes place on the first day of camp (the film takes place on the last day of camp). The TV series is just as quirky, raunchy, and campy as the original movie, with a lot twists and turns and new characters introduced who were not in the movie (i.e. John Hamm, Michael Cera, Jordan Peele, and Jason Schwartzman). There are lots of allusions to the movie in the lines and sequences that are used by the cast (ie Victor constantly running away from someone), and even in the ultra-cheesy theme song from the movie "Higher and Higher". We see how Ron and Gail met, who Lindsay really is, how Katie and Andy started going out, and perhaps the most important thing, the story behind Gene's talking can of vegetables. I LOVED IT! I love how all of the original cast signed on, even with so many of them being huge stars presently (ie Amy Poehler, Bradley Cooper, Elizabeth Banks, Paul Rudd, etc).
I feel kind of sad for Michael Showalter who played Coop, who was notably the only actor who looks physically different (he's put on a few extra pounds, but what do you expect in that it's been 14 years since the movie came out). This is an excellent 8-episode season that hopefully won't be the last time we visit the summer of 1981 at Camp Firewood. And hopefully we won't have to wait 14 years for its return. I can't wait for the next season!
Monday, July 27, 2015
Unboxing: Target Beauty Box Review
Over the last few years, it's been pretty hard to miss the popular trend of subscription boxes. There are subscription boxes available for anything from fitness products to natural hair products, and from beauty products to pet products. There is something for everyone! I have tried Birchbox in the past and have been getting Ipsy bags for the last year (and love it!). However, I recently became aware that Target from time to time offers occasional"Target Beauty Boxes" which include a variety of beauty products and makeup items at the low price of $5! The Target Beauty Box is available for purchase on Target's website, www.target.com with FREE SHIPPING. In support of back to school/college, Target recently sold two Beauty Boxes, which sadly, have sold out. They must be really popular because they just became available for purchase 2 weeks ago. The two recent Target Beauty Boxes are "Honor Roll" and "Head of the Class". Here's a look at these boxes and what they contained:
A few minor bruises during the shipping on the corners of the lids, but no major damage and good presentation.
The boxes both featured the items wrapped in lime green tissue paper, and featured the name of the specific box that was purchased (each are $5 and you can buy one or both). The box title cards also each featured coupons for $3 off of a $15+ purchase of cosmetics, skin care, or hair care products to be made at Target. I can't wait to use them!!!!
Head of the Class
Contents:
- 3-pack of Goody Ouchless Hair Elastic bands (Love these!)
- Yes to Cucumbers Soothing Facial Towelettes
- 2-in-1 Pumice Stone
- Hollywood Fashion Secrets Fashion Tape (I can't wait to use these!)
- Wet 'n Wild Max Volume Plus Mascara
- Covergirl lip gloss
- Herbal Essences Wild Neutrals Dry Oil Spray
Honor Roll
Contents:
- Bath Sponge
- 3-pack of Goody Ouchless Hair Elastic bands (You can't have too many of these, I'm just saying.)
- Olay Fresh Outlast Body Wash in "Cooling White Strawberry Mint" (It smells divine!)
- Covergirl Outlast all-day makeup primer (I'm so excited to try this!)
- Nyx Butter Gloss in "Strawberry Parfait" (Which is one of my personal favorite lip gloss brands!)
- Burt's Bees White Tea Facial Wipes
- John Frieda Luxurious Volume 7-day Treatment (I'm leery of this one but anything's worth a try right?)
As you can see, the Target Beauty Boxes feature a large quantity of products with a lot of variety. The included coupons are also an added bonus and were an unexpected surprise. I highly recommend the Target Beauty Box, and hopefully I'll find out when the next one/s is/are available. I became aware of these by chance after a friend I follow on Instagram announced that they were available. I would recommend following the Target Style Facebook page for more updates.
Wednesday, July 22, 2015
Out and About: 7/17/2015 - 7/21/2015
Just sharing a few fun events and activities I participated over the past week.
Friday 7/17/2015: Missouri Botanical Gardens Lantern Festival
A lot of fun even though it was super hot that night (95 degrees). Me and the homie Devin went. The lanterns beautiful and massive! I highly recommend you check them out before the exhibit leaves. The Lantern Festival ends August 23, 2015. Here's some pics:
Tuesday 7/21/2015: Muny "Into The Woods" and Winslow's Home
This was an excellent show! The incredible Heather Headley did a superb job in her portrayal of the Witch. It was packed in that it was opening night for the show but fortunately the weather last night was perfect, not hot and not cold. I didn't drip a single bead of sweat the whole night which is unheard of for a mid-July evening. I wasn't complaining. Of course I had to contend with certain groups of obnoxious people, a young group of college students and a group of 40-something-year-old women. The whole show I kept saying to myself "we get it, you know all of the songs..." Annoying but we got through it. Also, before attending the show, I had my first encounter with Winslow's Home, a very special and unique restaurant on Delmar in U City. I wrote a review of my experience there on Yelp. Be sure to check it out! I highly suggest their Winslow's Burger, chocolate chip cookie (possibly the best chocolate chip cookie I've ever had), and their Goat Cheese Cookies (which were soooooo good!).
Pics from Winslow's Home:
Friday 7/17/2015: Missouri Botanical Gardens Lantern Festival
A lot of fun even though it was super hot that night (95 degrees). Me and the homie Devin went. The lanterns beautiful and massive! I highly recommend you check them out before the exhibit leaves. The Lantern Festival ends August 23, 2015. Here's some pics:
Tuesday 7/21/2015: Muny "Into The Woods" and Winslow's Home
This was an excellent show! The incredible Heather Headley did a superb job in her portrayal of the Witch. It was packed in that it was opening night for the show but fortunately the weather last night was perfect, not hot and not cold. I didn't drip a single bead of sweat the whole night which is unheard of for a mid-July evening. I wasn't complaining. Of course I had to contend with certain groups of obnoxious people, a young group of college students and a group of 40-something-year-old women. The whole show I kept saying to myself "we get it, you know all of the songs..." Annoying but we got through it. Also, before attending the show, I had my first encounter with Winslow's Home, a very special and unique restaurant on Delmar in U City. I wrote a review of my experience there on Yelp. Be sure to check it out! I highly suggest their Winslow's Burger, chocolate chip cookie (possibly the best chocolate chip cookie I've ever had), and their Goat Cheese Cookies (which were soooooo good!).
Pics from Winslow's Home:
Pics from The Muny:
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