Wednesday, October 26, 2016

A Night of Fun, Beauty, and Body Empowerment; Curvy Grl's Nite Out!



The lovely ladies of Fluffly Grl Movement, Dangerous Curves, and Zephyr Wine Salon

This past Saturday evening, I had the great pleasure of attending the Curvy Grl's Nite Out event, hosted by Fluffy Grl Movement and Dangerous Curves. (And no,that is not a typo) The event was held at Zephyr Wine Salon in the Grove.




The event was held to promote both organizations which promote body empowerment for all sizes, and especially those of us on the curvier size. At the event there were a number of great vendors including Jewels 2 Dazzle (which was featured in my recent post about the Natural Hair and Black Cultural Expo), Brass Pineapple Company (look out for a future product review about them), Aims Moon Paperie, and Mary Kay. There were also hor'douvres for everyone to enjoy, great raffle prizes for guests to enter to win, and fun swag bags for all in attendance.

 The display for Brass Pineapple
Myself and Event Co-Host of the event, Ebbi Nicole

The event was a lot of fun and also featured signature cocktails, the pink Curvy Cutie and the glittery purple Feirce Fluff. It was a great opportunity to network and fellowship with fellow feirce women in the St. Louis area.

Ebbi Nicole SLAYING in a fabulous jumpsuit by Honey's Child Boutique


Me and fellow blogger Jeanne of FinesseCurves

It was a great event held in a perfect venue! Everyone had a great time and I can't wait for future productions with these ladies. Follow Fluffy Grl Movement and Dangerous Curves on social media for future updates, and  Fluffy Grl's Fluff Tips (which are awesome!).

Monday, October 3, 2016

Recent Happenings: Murmuration Festival, Sista Strut, Saint Louis Natural Hair and Black Cultural Expo

Over the last two weeks, I've thoroughly enjoyed myself at a variety of events throughout the city that are proving that St. Louis has much to offer the world in the areas of health, arts, and culture. Here's a brief recap of the Murmuration Festival, the 7th Annual Sista Strut, and the 2nd Annual Saint Louis Natural Hair and Black Cultural Expo. All of the events were fantastic!

The Murmuration Festival: Sep. 23 - 25, 2016




Live Human Art Installation

So what is the Murmuration Festival you might be asking? Well, essentially it was a 3-day weekend of events that focused on educating and celebrating people on the subjects of music, art, science, and technology (with a little food, business, social issues, and fashion sprinkled in). Basically, I call it "St. Louis's answer to SXSW."


Wearable art

The festival, which was held at the Cortex, was quite wonderful and a great event for the city of St. Louis. I learned about a lot of great organizations in town that provide resources to help local makers including Archreactor, which provides welding, wood-making, and 3D printing equipment, and classes to local makers to turn their ideas into reality.



The festival also featured great local restaurants including Ices Plain and Fancy, Juniper, LuLu's Seafood and Dim Sum, and others.


Chicken and biscuit dish from Juniper

The biggest highlight of the festival for me was seeing the genius that is Flying Lotus perform on Saturday, Sep. 24th. It was an amazing show! The visuals and music that this man creates is like none other. Seriously! Also, big shout out goes to my friend Chris for accompanying me to the festival. Even though his catch phrase throughout the weekend was "this some weird [bleep]", he still didn't complain about being there and stayed with me the entire time.




Sista Strut: Oct. 1, 2016



This year I decided to do something different, and instead of walking in the Strut, I chose to volunteer at the event, which is hosted by iHeartRadio. It was a great experience. Hopefully the sponsorships and participation will continue to grow for years to come. I saw many friends and church members that I knew there, and everyone had a great time.

While in a conversation among some of the other volunteers, one woman mentioned that her husband believed that the name should be changed to "Sister Strut", instead of Sista Strut in order to get more corporate sponsors, funding, and participation. I quickly challenged this suggestion stating that the whole point of the event is to bring awareness to the black community about breast cancer. The disease takes the lives of more black women than women of any other race. Early detection is the key and together, hopefully one day, there will be a cure.

The Saint Louis Natural Hair and Black Cultural Expo: Oct. 2, 2016





Capping off my fun-filled (busy) weekend was the Saint Louis Natural Hair and Black Cultural Expo! My mom came to the event, which was held at the Holiday Inn Downtown, and had an absolute BLAST! The event was well attended and had a lot of great black-owned vendors there selling their wares. There were so many great natural hairstyles among the hair models, vendors, and attendees alike! My mother and I bought so much jewelry and accessories, it's ridiculous! But we loved it all.

I ran into my influencer buddy, Ms. Ebbi Nicole (Fluffy Girl Movement) while there as well.

One of my favorite booths at the event was that of Jewels 2 Dazzle. Huuuuuuuuuunney, when I tell you I wanted everything on that table! I wanted EVERYTHING! And all of her [Kandas, the owner] items were reasonably priced and very unique!






I can't wait to go back to all of the events next year!

Tuesday, September 13, 2016

The Movement: Past, Present, and Future; The 24-Year Journey of Activist Rev. Phillip Duvall

Photo by Ag Photography

By Caprice Foster

The modern-day Black Lives Matter Movement (BLM) that is building and growing has evolved from the shoulders of many men and women before it. From the battles fought during the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960s, to the Black Power Movement of the 1960s and ‘70s, to the anti-apartheid fight of the 1980s and ‘90s, the impassioned song of the activist proves that though the lyrics may change, the heart behind it remains the same.

One of St. Louis’ most well-known activists is Rev. Phillip Duvall. With 24 years of grassroots activism under his belt, he has seen it all and continues to fight and serve as an advocate for the voiceless. The most recent fruits of his labor, and that of his colleague Shahid, has arrived in the form of the recent charge of former St. Louis Police officer Jason Stockley for the murder of Anthony Lamar Smith in 2011. The reintroduction of the case in the media has not come without controversy.

“I had a thirst for social justice to ensure that people are treated fairly and that we carried out, in America’s terms, equal protection under the law,” Rev. Duvall reflected while recounting how he became an activist. The activism seed was planted early in him due to some very prominent activists who had relationships with his father, Rev. Clarence Duvall Sr.

Photo courtesy of Ag Photography


“I was born in the ‘60s, and growing up in the ‘70s and ‘80s, you get to reflect on a lot of history. Growing up in the church and hearing a lot of stories, I probably caught the ‘bug’ and didn’t know I had it.”

Some of his mentors, include his father for his “calming inspiration and patience” in his life, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Rev. Jessie Jackson, as well as Minister Louis Farrakhan.

Aside from having such an illustrious group of mentors to inspire him, Duvall also encountered his own personal experiences with racism which influenced his decision to one day become an activist. “I left the safe confines of Webster Groves and became a military policeman at 18 years old. I witnessed injustice as a young soldier at Fort Polk, Louisiana in 1982, where I heard Leesville police make reference to ‘nigger soldiers’ as we watched a burning body hanging from a tree.”

“In the early ‘90s, I was a child care supervisor for juvenile delinquents at a home that was located in the Central West End. I experienced firsthand how young black men were incarcerated at an early age.” It was through his work there that Duvall witnessed unethical and illegal behavior by police officers as they interacted with young black men.

“I was shocked with the excessive police force of young black youth, which I viewed as illegal behavior by the police. I was tired of hearing the news of black men being beaten to death and being shot to death. I wanted police officers to appropriately police us, but not beat us and kill us.”

This has been the platform for which Rev. Duvall has found his calling in the movement.  However, his work has not been without its adversity. “Your life gets threatened when an establishment gets exposed. I’ve received death threats. I’ve had people slash my tires at meetings. You deal with the vicious, unfounded attacks people say about you.”

The husband of Celeste, and father of two daughters, Liberty and Serenity, also pointed out how his activism work has impacted his family time and sleep. “It takes a lot of your time if you’re committed.  It cuts into my sleep. You get consumed by some of the stories.”

In spite of the burdens that come with the work, Rev. Duvall believes that the victories that result from his work, make it all worth it. “To be an advocate, you’re out for change. When you can get change, that’s a win.”

Photo by Ag Photography


With the current national attention that BLM has garnered, Rev. Duvall expressed his excitement about where things are going. “As an activist, I am excited because people are standing up saying ‘enough is enough’. I’m inspired by the modern day movement because the younger generation has heart and passion, and you’re not playing with the power structure and they know it.”

If there’s any advice that Rev. Duvall can offer to the current Movement, he shares these words, “economic boycotting is still the most effective form of boycotting. Be true to yourself. Give yourself real timelines.”

He also has inspiring words for anyone interested in serving in activism. “If your heart is telling you to do it, then do your research. Find something that you love. If you learn how to be an advocate for yourself, then you’ll learn to be an advocate for others.”

With the most recent wave of protests by such celebrities like Colin Kaepernick, the aftermath of Alton Sterling and Philando Castile, and the deadliest mass shooting in recent American history at the Pulse Nightclub in Orlando, Florida, the country is at a crossroads, and at a fever pitch in its race relations, fight for equal rights, calls for stronger gun laws, and fight against police brutality. Now, as we all watch and wait to see what will happen next in this epic story that is American history, Rev. Duvall has his own thoughts about the future of activism in St. Louis, and our entire country.

“In St. Louis, the level of consciousness is here now. It’s a season of consciousness. As for the country, she is widely awake! Your generation has proven [the protests] are not going away until things get fixed. The release of videotapes within a certain period of time will be a requirement. The movement will continue.”


“As for St. Louis, if we don’t remain vigilant, then history will repeat itself.” 

~Photos by Ag Photography

Tuesday, September 6, 2016

Someone's Getting Married! Looks for the Bachelorette Party and Wedding




Who doesn't love a wedding? The excitement and joy shared among friends and family to celebrate the love and union of two people provides the perfect reason to party! The venue, the music, the dresses, the flowers, the food - all of it add to an amazing event and fun time had by all! Even if you're not the bride, who says you can't strut your personal style as one of the best dressed wedding guests in attendance?



This past weekend I had the pleasure of celebrating the nuptials of my friend Tamika to her now-husband, Craig. It was a beautiful ceremony held in St. Louis, Missouri at the Norman K Probstein Golf Course in Forest Park. As a way to incorporate the couple's passion for travel, the theme of the wedding was "Abroad with the Butlers." 

Here's a peak at the festivities and my look for the occassion.

My Outfit

My Dress: New York and Company

All of my accessories (Rose Gold with Rhinestones): Earrings, Necklace, Bracelet, and Clutch: Charming Charlie

My Shoes: ShoeDazzle





My Makeup

Face: Makeup Forever HD Foundation, NARS Orgasm/Laguna Blush Bronzer Palette, Coastal Scents Contour Blush Palette

Eyes: EM by Michelle Phan  Shade Play Eye Shadow Palette

Lips: Faux Lipstick by MAC Cosmetics



Me and the Bride and Groom


Cute Idea! Instead of the typical guest book for the reception, the Butlers had guests sign a framed map! They also assigned all of the guests' tables as countries instead of traditional table numbers. (I was at "Italy")


And look at who caught the bouquet! HA! I had to! It matches my clutch.




Now, as for the Bachelorette Party look.... For Tamika's Bachelorette Party, we went on a dinner cruise on the Mississippi River, The Becky Thatcher, and then to a club. 



My Outfit

The Dress: Eloquii

The Clutch: The Limited (Vintage)

The Shoes: ShoeDazzle





Cheers to the newlyweds! I'm so happy for my friend! She's beautiful inside and out and I wish you both the best!





Sunday, August 7, 2016

Push the Boundary Blogger Event in Saint Louis

This past Thursday evening, I had the pleasure of attending a blogger event hosted by SMGA Media Group LLC and fellow blogger The Pink Snob. The event was called Push the Boundary and was held at one of St. Louis' trendiest restaurant/bars, The Boundary, which is located at the Cheshire Inn in Clayton. 






The event was well-attended and gave influencers a look and taste of the great ambiance and stellar cuisine that The Boundary offers guests. From cheese plates and charcuterie, to ceviche and bok choy, the food was absolutely DELICIOUS! 





My favorite dishes of the night were the bar-b-cue ribs which were sweet and tangy, a scrumptious and very cheesy mac-n-cheese, and a delicious cheesecake! Compliments to the chef indeed!





It's always a great time being in the company of local bloggers and influencers, and this occasion didn't disappoint. Add fantastic food, atmosphere, and a slew of tasty, strong cocktails, and you've got the makings of a fantastic Summer evening!





A big thanks to SMGA Media Group LLC, The Pink Snob, and The Boundary for sponsoring this wonderful event!

Check out The Boundary at 7036 Clayton Ave, St. Louis, MO 63117.

Sponsored.


Sunday, June 12, 2016

That One Time I Live Tweeted the Opera!

This past Wednesday evening, I had the great pleasure of live-tweeting the Opera Theatre of Saint Louis' performance of La Boheme. I had a wonderful time with many fellow bloggers and influencers tweeting to our hearts' content while using the hashtag, #OTSLboheme. Photos courtesy of Opera Theatre of Saint Louis.



The performance was amazing and the singing was incredible! I also loved the staging and the orchestra played wonderfully!


The Opera Theatre of Saint Louis boasts having diverse actors in their productions, and this season's cast of La Boheme kept that tradition going, which is always wonderful to see! It's always a great thing to see yourself reflected on the stage through actors of color.


And just so you know, the operas at Opera Theatre of Saint Louis are performed in English with subtitles on screens so you will be able to understand and follow the story!


I highly recommend you take a trip to this season's performances at the Opera Theatre of Saint Louis! You won't be disappointed and will absolutely enjoy yourself.

For details and performance schedules, go to www.opera-stl.org.